The following post was written by Vince Fowler a Business Coach, Speaker and Veteran in Calgary . He allowed me to share it with you. I think it is one of the best posts I have read, thus I am sharing it with you. You can follow Vince on twitter @VinceFowler
It would appear that the lives of most people who actively post on Facebook are somehow living the perfect life – a life filled with laughter, with joy, money, friends, love, appreciation, amazing holidays, best job ever, best opportunities ever, etc … etc.
At times, it just might seem to you that everyone around you is having more fun than you, that their life is somehow better, more fulfilling and more rewarding than yours.
That’s just not reality.
Everyone has challenges. Everyone has fears. Everyone has pain … and I truly believe that we all have our own demons & skeletons kept secretly in our closets … under the proverbial lock and key.
“Help” is something that way too many people have a hard time asking for … and when issues go un-addressed, people begin to lose hope. And when all hope appears lost, the only available decision left in the room seems to be the exit-life door … and then they’re gone… just as Robin Williams is gone.
Sad. So very sad.
Please – do not feel that my life or anyone else’s – celebrities included – are better than yours. Everyone is a little messed up in their own way … I know I am.
Just because I post my joys, doesn’t mean I don’t experience sadness. Just because I post my excitement, doesn’t mean I don’t experience boredom. Just because I post my successes and aspirations, doesn’t mean I don’t experience pain and failure.
I wish Robin Williams were still alive. He was funny beyond belief. He shared his talents with so many for no other purpose than to make them laugh. Sure, he was rich and famous … not because he discovered a way to monetize his talents, but because people actually valued his art and his craft.
That said, Robin Williams clearly had issues – which means Robin was a human being … which means he was just like you and me. Sadly, he wasn’t able to deal with those issues. Because he was loved and appreciated by millions, millions are now mourning his loss.
I once heard many, many, years ago … a man can live 40 days without food. He can live 4 days without water, but he cannot live 4 seconds without hope.
I don’t judge Robin Williams … I will miss Robin Williams.
Thanks Vince for saying what so many of us feel. Teens are particularly vulnerable at this time and we want to make sure they are safe. Your message is a message for all!
If a person believes there is no hope in winning a game,you can visibly see their efforts drop
If a person believes there is no hope in a relationship improving, they sometimes immediately break up
I challenge you to look around and observe on your own
As long as there is HOPE , even a glimmer of HOPE, people keep trying
By Vince Fowler 2014
I want a future where we treat all human beings with dignity, respect with understanding and compassion. I want a world where we have better treatments for mental health disorders and a world where there will be no future losses due to these illnesses. I want a world where all people are not ashamed or afraid to reach out for help. It is more than OK to reach out for help there are many places and people where you can. There is hope and I have hope that we can help .
Susan Spellman Cann
Resource for teens in Calgary : Hearing Youth Helping Youth 403-264-8336
Adults can also call the Distress Centre : 403-266-4357 403.266-HELP
Resources to assist with hope:
Click here: Livebinder on depression
Click here: Mental Health resources for teens
Click here: Suicide prevention resources
Click here: Depression Resources : High School Counselling
Click here: Haiku Deck on hope
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Reblogged this on Erin Luong's Reflections on Counselling, Education, Leadership and Technology and commented:
Sharing an excellent reflection and resources.